My hobby is associated with something that fills me with good energy and gives me a sense of fulfillment. For example, morning meditation with the smell of Palo Santo and incense is a process during which I can charge up with energy for the whole day, release all the negative emotions and fill myself with positivity.
Having morning coffee alone with my notebook and pen is also a part of my hobby, during which I can write down all my thoughts, ideas, desires, plans and daily schedule. This adds organization to my day, helps me accomplish everything I planned, and adds aesthetic atmosphere to my weekdays, taking me back to the times of handwriting, which is something unique in our time.
My love for paper, notebooks, pens and handwriting is eternal and irreversible. Reading books is a separate kind of pleasure for me because nothing can transport you to another world like a book can. It is an opportunity to immerse oneself in another life, become a part of something great and unique, feel a whole spectrum of emotions and experiences. Reading books is something that cannot be described in words, as each book is a small yet eternal life that you will never forget.
Making candles is a hobby that I discovered relatively recently because my love and fascination with candles is something special and truly beautiful. I love everything related to them: their scent, wax, wooden wick crackling during burning, flame, their shapes, tactile sensations. Candles are the product that adds romance, passion, sharp sensations, and at the same time, it gives comfort, a feeling of safety, and light. This is a hobby that recently appeared in my life, but it will remain with me forever, as once you try doing what you love and what you enjoy, you will never be able to give it up because it captivates your heart...
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Responsibility (Women of any age feel confident and safe when they are with a responsible man).
Financial independence and self-sufficiency (The prospect of living in debt, taking out loans, or relying on parents' money scares most mature women. And the prospect of living with parents while starting a family can ruin a marriage altogether).
Goal-oriented mindset (A man should have goals in all areas of his life, knowing his purpose in life and sticking to it. He should be able to decisively change plans, thereby investing in the future. It doesn't matter what business he chooses; it's essential that he wants to be the best at it).
Generosity (Greed is one of men's major vices. A greedy man is an unattractive sight for a woman, especially when it comes to trivial matters. But generosity doesn't mean that a man should squander money left and right. An adult self-sufficient man should have an understanding of where and how much he spends from his own budget).
Sense of humor (There's nothing worse than spending time with a dull man. A subtle and appropriate, interesting joke, a timely told anecdote, or the ability to laugh at oneself is the best seasoning for any relationship).
Fidelity to oneself and one's choices (When I talk about fidelity, I mean the choice, not an inherent quality. It's a skill that arises in a favorable environment. A loving and content person doesn't think about what they're missing. A faithful person is true to their inner positions and decisions, and also honest with themselves and the people around them).
Respect for women and people in general (If a man behaves very politely in front of you but loses it with a waiter or a bank employee, that's a red flag. Over time, such men allow themselves to be rude to their women. It's important to maintain politeness throughout the duration of the relationship).
Ability to adapt and make decisions in extreme situations (Here I would emphasize the importance of a calm mind and control over feelings and emotions when something doesn't go according to plan. For example, being fired from a job should not lead to a year-long depression, binge drinking, and blaming everyone around you for your failures. Instead, it should motivate and help you reach new heights. And a man should always have a "Plan B," where his family won't be left on the street without food).
Caring (Having the aforementioned qualities is caring. A knight who intellectually, physically, morally, and materially fights for you every day).