Let me tell you about my view on modern dating and relations. I will explain this on apples) Let's imagine that Masha has three green apples, but you need one kilo of red ones. And it's obvious you need to go to the market and buy that kilo of red apples, but you think- the market is so far..what if they don't have what i need...and you ask Masha out for a coffee and think that she may have red apples for you somewhere deep inside. But nothing happens and she doesn’t share any red apples. So you think you should ask her out to the cinema. And surprise-you get nothing again. Then you date her, repair her car, do shopping hoping she would still find red apples for you and share. Then you are so desperate that you ask her to live with you, you want your apples back and she has to give them to you. And in some years she will hear something like this- so you lied to me all these years, why don't you share red apples? and she would answer- what are you talking about? I have only three green ones?..
The reason why is all this happening all the time that we are not really honest in our expectations about partner and we always see them as better people or different then they are, we idolize them, play games and pretend, hoping that deep-deep inside they will find those apples for us. but what if they just don't have them?...you can’t expect from a person to give you apples she doesn’t have, to bear you five kids she doesn't want, to give you love she doesn't have...
My point is clear, I hope...be honest with what you really want and what you can give to a person...This is how I would love to start my relations with you! from being totally honest to yourself!!
|Ideal match description:|
Be honest, confident, brave, with open eyes and soul,look for me and you will find me! Be with big loving heart, open smile, strong hands! Be helpful, human,real.