Let me confess right away: I don't collect years' worth of correspondence. A computer is a great thing, but it's never hugged anyone yet. So I'm not here to become a world champion in instant messaging. If there's a connection between us, I'm all for a real meeting and a real relationship.

My ideal man isn't a superhero or a millionaire. It's enough that he's honest, kind, keeps his word, and isn't afraid to make plans together. If you can make me laugh, love hugs, and believe that problems are better discussed than hushed up, we're off to a great start.